Holidays

Wow have I slacked off with the blog lately. Whoops. I'm blaming the busy holiday season and my work schedule and Mark's and Mira's illnesses requiring medical intervention and our ski passes.

So first things first, Mark and Mira are both healthy (now). Mira came down with a bit of a cough and runny nose which turned into an ear infection which turned into a double eye infection, so she was on oral antibiotics and eye drops. Luckily she bounced back quickly, as kids tend to do. I ended up having to be on antibiotics as well for a sinus infection after my respiratory illness. I always get a sinus infection after any sort of cold but typically after a few days the symptoms go away on their own and at least the pain is controllable with over-the-counter meds. For whatever reason this time I was in migraine-level pain for over a week with no relief no matter what I took, but a few hours after taking my first dose of Zithromax I was starting to feel better. Whew!

Mark of course is another story. The back story is that when he was an infant he got pneumonia, which made him more prone to recurrent pneumonias as he got older so now he has scarring in his lungs from all the infections he's had which, of course, makes him even more prone to getting pneumonia. So he got sick with that nasty cold the same time I did but he just did not recover the way he should have (I think part of the problem is he didn't take any time off of work). Finally after he had a wheezing/coughing attack one night when he needed several puffs of my albuterol just to breathe we took him to the Instacare. They gave him a breathing treatment and did a chest X-ray that showed he didn't have evidence of pneumonia yet so they called it bronchitis and sent him home with a course of antibiotics and his own inhaler. A few days after starting his ABX he still didn't seem much better and after he finished his course he got much worse again. What that meant is I was at work and got texts from him like, "I can't breathe" and "Help me." And of course I couldn't just leave work so we had to call Mark's parents to come to the house and sit with Mira (it was late at night so we definitely didn't want to wake her up) and get a friend to drive Mark to the ER and when I was finally able to give report on my patient and leave I went to the ER and traded off with our friend so she could go home and I sat with Mark. That was another really long night. The doctor was worried that Mark might have a pulmonary embolism so he got a bunch of labs drawn, 2 liters of IV fluid, a pulmonary CT scan and more breathing treatments. And luckily everything ended up looking okay so the best the doctor could think was that the ABX he'd been on weren't attacking whatever bug he had. He still didn't have pneumonia based on the CT but he was right on the edge. So they sent him home on 2 more antibiotics and steroids - and 24 hours later he was looking and acting normal again. Big sigh of relief there! It's been a rough few months for health care in our family. If there's a bright side to this, we hit our deductible a few months ago with Mark's hospitalization for chest pain and so at least this has all been covered by insurance. I guess that's a good thing, right? :)

We also had some family from out of town this last week. Mark has an adult daughter from his previous marriage (he got married when he was quite young, 19 years old, and needless to say that didn't work out so well) who moved to Kentucky with her boyfriend earlier this year, so our present to her was to fly her out for a week to visit. It was such a fun week with Jintelle and just like old times. Plus my little sister Penny is in town for a few weeks so we got to see her for Hanukkah earlier in the month. I think taking the commercialism out of the holidays and focusing on spending time with family is the best thing to do this time of year, and at least in my case much less stressful.

Sara and Penny

Me and Penny

Sara, Penny and me

Mark and I have gone to several more counseling sessions and I feel like it's been helpful. For the most part I've been feeling much better. One thing that was suggested we do was to find something we both enjoy doing so we can spend more time together as a couple. One thing we definitely enjoy but we don't do very much due to price is go skiing. We looked into buying season passes to one of the many ski resorts nearby. The prices that seemed reasonable for our budget were only mid-week passes, which would really limit our ski days. Then we looked at The Canyons, which is in Park City and therefore the most expensive resort. We went there once last season and really loved it - but $1500 a person for a season pass just didn't seem affordable. Then we noticed that they give a massive discount to law enforcement and a spouse. And when I say massive I mean half price. Now that was certainly doable! So we have season passes to our favorite resort - and one of the reasons we love it so much is how big it is, about 180 trails! Now we have all season to explore the resort, I can perfect my skiing skills, and we get to spend time together doing something we love! This was the best gift we could have gotten each other.

One of the perks of having a season pass is we get a free buddy pass so when Jintelle was visiting we took her up skiing with us. Mark got a helmet cam and got some footage of us bumbling our way down the mountain and of him doing some black diamond trails. I had to edit these videos and they may not have come out great but you get the gist of it. :)

Mark is a much better skier than I am - he was on the ski team in college and doesn't even think twice about skiing off a cliff through a forest at breakneck speeds. My goal, on the other hand, is to not be snowplowing down the mountain by the end of the season. However, we figured out that even though I'll psych myself out and fall down on a not-very-steep, well-groomed slope with no trees in sight, if you give me a steep narrow hill with moguls and trees I'm not scared at all. Go figure because moguls are harder than a groomed slope! When Mark and I went skiing yesterday he got a video of me going down some moguls and doing fairly decent!

Mark thinks I can handle a black diamond mogul run the next time we go up so we'll see how I do at it. The nice thing about having a season pass is we can go up for a few hours in the morning and come home and not feel like we wasted our money. It's pretty awesome so I think we're going to have to get passes every year now because we're enjoying it so much. Plus next year Mira will be old enough we can start taking her up and teaching her to ski - now that will be cute!

Of course if you ask her she's old enough to start skiing already.

She's enough of a daredevil I think she would have a blast going skiing. Mark and I keep joking that we're going to have an Olympic skier on our hands (her middle name does mean "snow," after all!).

Mira is growing up so fast! It just blows my mind that she's going to be 2 in a couple of months. She's working on talking more and tries to sing along to any piece of music she hears. She loves to twirl around in frilly skirts and dance, and she's learning the art of the temper tantrum. Most of the time the tantrum consists of fake crying, dropping her face into her hands dramatically and sometimes some kicking for good measure. Usually they don't last very long and I have to try not to laugh because she's obviously just doing it for show but every once in awhile she has days when she's a little monster. She's constantly crying, screaming, throwing tantrums for real, hitting and in general cannot be pleased with anything. Mostly she's still a good natured, happy little girl. Here she is trying to play with Wally but really only succeeding in harassing the poor cat.

Here's a funny video we got at my sister Sara's house a couple months ago. Let's just say that cat toys should be marketed towards toddlers as well.

And finally some random pictures that Mira took with my phone. This girl makes me laugh.

I'm supposed to work Christmas Eve but I'm sure I'll have plenty of pics and videos of Mira having fun getting some presents in a few days. Hope everyone has a low-key, enjoyable holiday season!